Saturday, November 12, 2016

I'm Glad Donald Trump isn't a Christian

You heard me. I'm glad Donald Trump is not a Christian.

He is a businessman. His name is everywhere, and he has built an ostentatious empire of his own making with a branding that has nothing to do with politics. He doesn't strike me as a particularly nice guy. He is not the embodiment of class and dignity. He has a foul mouth and an attitude toward women that turns my stomach. I don't know if he is racist in his heart or just incredibly inarticulate about the subject, but whatever it is, it's not attractive.  I even wonder, did he ever mean this candidacy to go as far as it did and did he ever mean to be the nominee? Did he really want to be President, or was he just making a point? Is he going to really build a wall or is that a metaphor? How literally are people taking this guy? I hope he means what he says when he says he can help bring jobs back to this country.

I have so many questions and so many reservations. 
But there is this one thing that I have been thankful for--Donald Trump did not pander to evangelicals. He did not call himself a Christian. In fact the one time in which he did attempt to speak at the perceived Evangelical Flagship known as Liberty University, he was almost cute in his ineptitude. Almost--when I was done rolling my eyes and then laughing my head off. Then fearing that he would actually succeed. Nevertheless, he did not pretend to be something he isn't. He could never be accused of misrepresenting himself. At times the evangelical right was appalled that other evangelicals could support this guy! He even divided Christians against themselves, not that it takes much to do that. (Predestination? Free will? Wait, no. Transubstantiation! oooh, here's a good one: sprinkle or dunk? Wait, here's another one. Gay rights. Did you stop reading yet?) Oh, and by the way, Liberty U does not represent all evangelicals. Not even close. Just in case you thought I actually think that. Just, no. 

But here he is. He won. No recounts, no contested ballots. He won. And I could not be more thankful to Hillary Clinton for her gracious concession. It was spot-on. Funny that the people who say they're with her aren't much heeding her appeal.

So here we are, Christians with a heathen for a president. 
Yes! Finally we can stop the pretense that we follow a man who calls himself a Christian but is anything but. We as Christians have the opportunity at last to be Christians in a clearly non-Christian world. We have the chance to reach across to those who are different and LOVE them without political attachments or because of an agenda. We can prove to the world that we are not about parties or laws or offices but we are about the love of God and the hands and feet of Jesus. It is possible to be a Democrat and a Christian. It is even possible to be a Republican, independent or Libertarian and be a Christian. Or preferably, none of those things. What is important is that we are following in the footsteps of Christ. "Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven." (Matt. 5:16) (Thank you for that, Jesus. So many of us have forgotten.)

The founding fathers never intended for us to elect people because they were church men. They intended us to elect representatives who would defend the constitution. They themselves were racist, sexist, bigoted ideologues full of sin and hypocrisy whose lifestyles in today's society would never be tolerated. Slavery, anyone? Indian policy? Nevertheless, together they built something that is nothing short of amazing. Flawed men worked TOGETHER to build a nation that has led the world, for better or worse, and provided a better life for countless people from every continent.

I do believe that we need to elect men and women who will defend our religious liberties, but insist at the same time that they not legislate morality.
We need to elect representatives who will uphold the rule of law and allow the free space it requires for people of faith to flourish, because when faith grows, so does peaceful order, morality, and abundance. We do it in spite of who is elected, not because of them. Certainly no mortal man can provide the impetus for us to be faithful and righteous.

In an orderly society in which all rights and liberties are cherished, it is then our responsibility to be the Church. To ask ourselves what Jesus would do. To pray for revival, and then to carry it out. To call sin what it is without compromise, and to love unconditionally, without judgement. To walk without fear and be ambassadors of peace. We can leave Donald Trump out of it. We can make it all about Jesus and nothing about politics. We can actually play the role of peacemakers, and not some weird amalgamation of Christian-politician-do-gooder. Just Christians, because that is who we are.

Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God. (Matt. 5:9)

Sunday, September 04, 2016

The 2015-16 School Year - Here We Go


With one warm-up week under our belts, it's time for the traditional start of the academic year. Every year on the first day back to school social media is flooded with photos of all the kids in their new stuff headed out, holding signs "Some Grade" or scowling with displeasure because they are really to old for this and mom won't let go of the tradition.

I always feel a little strange on that day because we're doing the same thing we always do, and in fact, I have tried to minimize the notion that school and the life we live are separate entities. It doesn't keep me from getting very worked up about having everything cleaned up and prepped and some new system in place for keeping us organized every fall. There is still a necessary return to a routine that we inevitably lose over the summer.

But there are things this year that are different. I no longer have a child in grammar level studies. I have one middle-school girl and one high-school boy, and it seems strange even to call him a boy because he is such a young man. I have been going through books and find that toys and children's books that we have held on to and cherished have fallen into disuse and are no longer needed. I have a LOT of old curricula to sell. I figure it's a project I'll work on gradually this year, but it's time. 

Matt has exchanged legos for computer parts
The thing that has changed the most is that Matt will no longer be my student. I have entrusted him to the capable folks at The Well-Trained Mind Academy, established by Susan Wise Bauer, author of the Well-Trained Mind. 

Matt's coursework will be:

Chemistry
Rhetoric I
US History
World Literature
Math through Mr. D Math 
Latin II through Dwane Thomas (who was the creator of Visual Latin, a video-based curriculum that we enjoyed and learned of through Compass Classroom.)
CrossFit / PE

This big change leaves Molly and me on our own, and we are both excited about the possibility. Without the co-op situation we have had for so long, we have decided to deviate from Tapestry of Grace this year, while staying on course with the same time period schedule we have been on so as not to backtrack, repeat, or leave holes. We are going back to our roots and will be using Well-Trained Mind (WTM) methods for her work as well. Her workload will increase by virtue of the fact that she can't slip through the cracks, not to mention I know just how capable she is of doing more! I don't know if she's excited about that. We will still be meeting with a friend once a week for science, logic, art and lunch. 

Molly's course work will be:

Math - Math U See, Epsilon, Zeta
Grammar - Analytical Grammar
Writing - The Complete Writer and beginning Writing With Skill, writing across the curricula, some creative writing.
French - Duolingo 
History - Story of the World, beginning with the early American Republic and French Revolution through Modern Times.
Science - Apologia Anatomy
Logic - Fallacy Detective
Art - Coursework designed by Mom from various resources
Violin


And so it begins. Again. 

Friday, August 19, 2016

When you Know Someone Famous...

The Well Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer was a bedrock foundation for me when I first started homeschooling. I have now purchased my third edition of this, the fourth that has been published.

The Story of the World, also by Susan Wise Bauer, was without question my favorite history series, a foundation and spine for our study of history. Even when I began using Tapestry of Grace, we still used the SOTW selections that corresponded with the unit we were on.

We listened to Story of the World read by Jim Weiss over and over.

We grew very accustomed to his voice. We bought many, many of his CDs. We liked that he and Susan Wise Bauer worked together.

Lately I've gotten to know a friend at church, and naturally I wanted to know her kids who are grown and on their own a bit better. Started following them on Instagram. One day I'm on and I see this:


hmmmm...I know that story. As Written by Jim W.... must be Jim Weiss. SO I put two and two together and realize that my friend's daughter is illustrating for Jim Weiss and Well Trained Mind Press, and she confirmed that, not fully understanding the magnitude of what she was doing. As far as I could tell. I think she does now. At least she'd better, or I'll tell her mom.

She's basically a rock star in our world. She has become the illustrator to one of the other rock stars in our life. We met Jim Weiss, we went to hear him tell stories live. He signed our CDs. Okay, so he might not be the BIGGEST of stars, not like Kim Kardashian or Taylor Swift or Zac Efron or Sean Connery, but in our childhood world of homeschooling and stories and history and things that we like...it's a big deal. And getting bigger apparently.

So Basically what I'm saying is you need to go to her website and look at her awesome work and then follow her on Instagram @christinianarva on Instagram. I feel like I kinda know someone famous. Well...she will be someday. You can get to know her better here in this article / interview with her.

I would post it all here, but I don't want to violate copyrights...so just go follow her stuff, and look for more of her work in all your Well Trained Mind publications.

Thursday, June 30, 2016

Summer 2016

I am writing this after a lengthy hiatus from blogging. 

It has been a very full school year with very little time to spare. In spite of the fact that I so often find myself longing to process things in writing, I seldom have the time and energy. Sitting down for any amount of time usually results in me thinking "wow, I want to go to bed," and so I do.

Today, both of my children are down in our basement culling through their toys. Molly is now 11, Matt is nearly 15. The day has finally come when he is willing to pack and store away his legos. He is finally admitting to himself that he doesn't play with them anymore, and the train table that eventually became his lego workshop and now only comes up to about his knees, can finally be relinquished. What mixed emotions we are all experiencing. Molly is doing a good job of evaluating her toys as well, though she isn't as close to being "done" with them. Even so, she is most certainly changing in her interests and activities. I can't help but feel nostalgic. These changes have opened so many new doors, and we have made wonderful memories.

We have traveled this year, and it has been unforgettable.

This past weekend my husband, son and I traveled to Austin, TX for the USAW Junior National Championship. Matt qualified for the meet in April and competed in the 62 kg weight class. He finished 10th in his weight class of 14 competitors.


In May our family took a one-week diving trip to Bonaire.


In March we took a 10-day diving trip to Roatan, Honduras.


In November 2015 we took a week-long trip to Florida to visit family.



In October 2015 we took a three-day trip to Historic Williamsburg and Jamestown.


We studied, we grew. It was full and wonderful.



But now, the inevitable cleaning and re-organizing and preparation for the next season is upon us.

This time, it feels different. 

It has come about that the friends that we have traveled this path with for the past 8 years have changed course. I know this happens. Not all who educate from home have the desire to stay the course through high school, but now it has come to land rather unexpectedly on our doorstep. It caused me to feel shaken, uncertain, worried that I wouldn't be able to do this on my own. The simple fact is that I am overwhelmed by the prospect, but the Lord knew this. In seeking His guidance on the matter, we are ready to persevere in high school for yet another year. I have sought some outside help this time, though, and have enrolled my rising sophomore in The Well Trained Mind Academy online courses for Chemistry, History and Literature, and in Dwane Thomas's Lingua Latina 2 and Mr. D Math (for Geometry). Incidentally, the mom of one of his favorite friends from our long-standing co-op looked into what we are doing and felt that it was a great fit for her son, too! We signed them both up and it works out that they will do more things "together" than they would have if they had continued in co-op.

What God knows and I am becoming increasingly aware of is that a young man needs to be accountable to someone other than his mom. Matt was trying to tell me this in ways that I'm not sure he even knew, but the relief that he feels knowing that he will have outside instruction and accountability shows me that this is a healthy change for both of us. This situation will hopefully provide the right amount of academic challenge and still afford us greater flexibility than a conventional school would.

As I write this post I am filled with bittersweet memories and thoughts of the future. As we loosen the reins on my son's education to some extent, I will have time to focus on my girl and the greater needs that she will have in this her first of the middle school year. Maybe I'll find the time to write again. I hope.

Saturday, October 03, 2015

Week 6: Six Reps of Anything...

It might have been mentioned here before that the kids, my husband and I all do CrossFit together. In any warmup, workout, or set of any kind, six reps is manageable. Six pushups are fine, six pull-ups, six kettle bell swings, six cleans...after that is where the struggle begins.

I'm pretty proud to say that I did 100 burpees today. Ten sets of 10. Every single set that number 7 rep felt pretty old. But I did it, and I am still walking. In fact I was a little winded, but I walked away from that workout feeling good. Good? After burpees?

We are on week six of school. Everything has felt good up to this. We now have weeks 7, 8 and 9 to go before we get a bit of a break, at which point we will go to Williamsburg to see what we see there.

I will look forward to the break and push through as though these weeks are the next few reps of a set of 10.